Infidelity 101 - Follow Their Trail of Deception

The longer you wait, the more stress and anxiety you will endure. You know that your spouse has acted suspiciously lately and you are concerned it has to do with an affair. They just are not the same as they used to be - you have gotten to know them pretty well throughout your time together - or so you think. Read on to learn the tell-tale signs of a cheating spouse and shut down their booty call dead in its tracks.

If you find that your spouse is spending more time away - late nights at the office, leaving early for work or working on their days off - there could be more play and little or no work. Your spouse might also have extra out of town meetings to attend. Well, maybe they do have extra meetings and extra work. Maybe not. Your best bet is to keep tabs on your spouse and make sure they know it. This includes dropping in to their work unannounced, offering to tag along with them on their business trips, even calling them at work a few extra times. If they start to come up with a ton of excuses why you are not welcome, you probably have some extra-marital romancing going on. Keeping tabs will give them less wiggle room and more squirming room. They might realize you have their number!

Everyone these days has a computer at home. What kind of activity is your spouse participating in online? When you near the computer do they react quickly like a panicked hog ready for slaughter? Are they being secretive with their online activities? If they are giving off that "guilty as sin" vibe, you might want to investigate further. Software is available allowing you to track your spouse's online activities and with any luck you will find it all there in black and white for the world to see. Once the software is installed, sit back a few days, then get in there to find what they have been up to. Most software packages let you track their text, the web sites they visit with screen shots and any messaging they might be doing. I strongly recommend you get full versions (yes pay for) of the key logging software to avoid embarrassing pop-up or "end of trial period" messages your spouse might see.

How has romance and intimacy been lately between you two? Do you feel they are pulling away from you and not giving you that same love you used to have? While sometimes this can be attributed to stress in their lives or even a leveling out of the relationship highs (honeymoon period has come and gone), it might also be that they are getting their satisfaction elsewhere. If someone else has taken your place, there is not much likelihood they will come to you for much more. Look for signs of another cologne or perfume, foreign hairs, even changes in clothing styles and tastes. If they are cheating on you, they are more than likely doing whatever they can to make an impression on this new fling. With this new lack of intimacy and lovemaking you will probably see a change in character and outward presentation as well. If they are not willing to talk about the lack of closeness, they are hiding something. Telling you that "it is just me" or "I am just tired" are flat out, lame excuses used to end the conversation. Watch out.

There are many other signs to watch for to discover your spouses little secret and you can discover them by reading below. You cannot wait around for them to tell you all about it - it is not going to happen. You have the right to know and should not wait to find out. Your spouse needs to be stopped now - for your sake. Take a positive step today and end the stress and anxiety by catching your cheating spouse red-handed.

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